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Old 03-03-2009, 11:31 PM
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Tent, please do not take this the wrong way, but I do not think you are ready to adopt. And that is perfectly ok. Please don't adopt to appease your wife. My dh (who is a very "happy" adoptee himself) was hesitant to adopt. It was after a long time and some serious soul searching that he was finally ready. I hope you and your wife can be on the same page. It is hard, believe me. Best of luck to you...I also just have to recommend meeting irl adoptive families and learning as much as you can, karen
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