Thank you for the responses. This has been very educational! I will definitely wait before buying her a gift...
I love the book rec and also the candles. I found this Shabbat candleholder...
Pewter Candlesticks - Our Love
It's out of stock right now, which is fine since I plan to wait until the baby is born. But what do you think of this holder? It seems appropriate, but I don't know if it's too literal...
I'm definitely ordering the book, just need to find the perfect candleholder.