My wife wants to adopt, and I am hesitant. Before everyone throws something at me, let me explain. I had some friend who adopted. They raised the child, put them through school, feed them, etc. The ungrateful teenager now says "I want to find my REAL parents. They were heartbroken. They said we have no problems with you want to find your parents, but what is this REAL B.S. Just because 2 people had sex doesn't make them REAL parents. Real parents are the ones that sit up with you till 4 am because you are sick, who help you with your homework, etc. What are we, just place holders. The respnse was worse.."Yes you did all that, but you still aren't my real parents
