[bromanchik]

Please know that there is never a good time to have a baby. And I need to reiterate that adoption is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. A year from now you will have graduated and hopefully have permanent employment. Have you looked at parenting options?

Losing a child to adoption is a devistating loss and can derail your life in ways that are unexpected. The changes can be deeply scarring. And it can also effect the relationships you have, including that of your fiance' and future children. Please read these boards, see how woman have been effected, how adoptees have been effected. Adoption should always be the last option for a pregnant woman.