I have this fear everyday, i tend to bond to my friends children due to the fact 7 years later im still not ready to have a child again out of fear i will fail as a mother, I know i will be a great mother i get told that often i just wonder. still ,so i cant say it will go away or change but i do know that i can love again wether that be my friends child the boyfriend or my family being a mother is about a bond and about love when you have a child you automatically have that bond and as we all know love seems to follow in its footsteps so just keep you heart and your mind open and the rest will fall into place. This dose not define you as a mother it only helps you grow as an adult give yourself some credit you did the right thing once you will know how to be a great and loving mother when your times comes..
