We paid expenses for my son's birth mom and would do so again. She needed some help and we were happy to provide that. Had she changed her mind, we would have lost everything. It was a risk worth taking though. I'm glad we helped her and that while she was pregnant, she was warm and safe and didn't go hungry.
Wizardofoz-you don't speak for all adoptive parents obviously. Nor do we consider expenses "birth mother charity."
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