[enggirl]

Hello!
After 8 years of ttc, including surgery, we were recently approached by someone in the family who found themselves pregnant and not wanting another child. Of course, we agreed to adopt the baby, due 8-7-09 and are ecstatic! But I am afraid!
What if she changes her mind? She keeps saying all the right things-we have openly talked about the situation. She feels as though we are helping them out. I have expressed to her how much this means to our family and she seems to understand that. But I have to keep asking myself, what if she changes her mind?!?! It's just so hard!! How do you get through it? I've yet to just let myself go and really enjoy this experience. After suffering 2 mscg's I guess I'm just afraid to let loose!

Any advice will be so appreciated! Thanks so much for just being here to let me get some of this out!!!

Enggirl