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Originally Posted by hopingforachild
lahdh4,
Thank you for the apology. I was not offended by your original post. I am open to the opinions of others, but I am bothered when people are "point blank" rude.
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Ok...point blank
I wasn't trying to be rude, but you did ask for opinions & I gave you mine.
I still do wonder about entering into an agreement with a person that you are unsure about. I know for a fact that people can change, but we aren't talking about a situation that you're already in, we're talking about a situation that you will be inviting into your life.
I'm a birthmom (as if that isn't obvious
) & I know that I wouldn't enter an adoption with an adoptive family that I had misgivings about - no matter how much I liked them, no matter what they promised for the future - this is a situation that will be there for life, so why not enter into one where at least initially you feel 100% comfortable.
Hopingforachild, I know that you are new, if my postings were rude or hurtful to you, please accept my apologies - adoption is a hard thing from all perspectives - & I surely don't want to be a person who has chased you away from a community that has so much to offer.
