[McNally720]

Hi Mr. Detail! There are some great ideas here!! The idea of our daughter's adoption has always been "out there", and she got more of an idea about how it all happened when we welcomed her brother home this year.

Sometimes when we are cuddling/saying good night, I'll just add, "I'm so glad we are a family/that we adopted you" or things to that effect.

Now, at 3.5 she she sometimes sticks something under her shirt and says it's a baby. We talked about how she grew in J's belly (her bmom) and then we adopted her. Now she will tell that info to me, so some how our conversations have sunk in.

I would be casual, see what she asks and follow her lead! Good luck!