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Of course I also can't give much input online, but I don't think what you're describing sounds much like attachment disorder. As others have said, it sounds more like a developmental disorder such as FAS. If you can get him diagnosed as significantly mentally impaired you can get power of attorney for him & that will enable you to make his financial & medical decisions. Otherwise, he is an adult and you can not force him to do anything. Just because he is capable of working part time does not mean he does not qualify for disability--I work (on the books) 25 hours a week & still get SSDI and qualify for medicaid. It's a lot of paperwork, and it typically takes applying several times, but it does happen. If you get him on medicaid there may also be half-way housing or supervised living situations he qualifies for. If you'd like to PM me I'd be glad to offer what help I can.
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