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Ravensong, I agree, that it seems odd that they sent me her contact number. I would have been happy with a generic email account for her also. (but that would make the phone calls a little tough)
Our SW and amom's advised us to keep confidential at least in the beginning. The idea being as you become more comfortable with each other, then you can share additional information. Sounds like that is the approach Thanksgiving mom and Emster have used.
I hope to have continued contact with the birthmother through pictures, emails, and phone calls in both directions. I am not sure if she is interested in visits, but we would be willing on a limited basis (long distance). Her profile did not indicate that she wants visits and I hope to discuss this further.
As I said, we have only spoken by phone on one occasion. While I had a really positive feeling about her, there is a history of jail time and possible drug use. I am just trying to be careful... I can always share more, but I can't take it back.
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