[thanksgivingmom]

I just have my daughter's Mom's cell number and email address. Actually, two years into our open adoption I asked for an address where she would feel comfortable with receiving a present I wanted to send. She gave me her home address, but we worked up to her being comfortable with me knowing where she lives.

Initially, all communication was done through the SW with increased access to each other as we were comfortable.

How open are you intending the adoption to be?