[mdesi]

Lil, your heart is in the right place, but there are other ways to help your friend. First, you don't seem to know, or at least asknowledge it here, what the nature of their infertility is. If it's just an egg issue, my issue for instance, maybe you could offer to donate eggs to her and she could go through pregnancy. If it's an uterine issue, maybe you could be her surrogate using their embryos. If it's male factor, perhaps your fiance could donate for them. However, as a woman w/ IF, it would completely freak me out if a friend of mine said "Oh, we'll get pregnant for you, and give you the baby." It's been completely freaky to have people offer eggs and surrogacy for me, so I know that would make me really freaked out.