Have you tried googling "therapy for adoptive moms" or anything along those lines? A lot comes up, and if you do it by your location/state, I'm sure something would come up there too.
You might also call a few therapists in your area to ask if they have experience in adoption issues. And if they don't, they will know of those that do.
And yes..you can hurt. Each of us have that permission to feel what we do.
