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thanks so much for all of your kind words. I feel like I crossed a bridge now or something..I can't wait for each of you to get this call. I'm not sure if they were in TARE or not. I spent a lot of time on that site, and never saw them, so I don't know where they've been hiding for the last 3 years. We are in NC, and they are in TX. Any advice for visitations, and how they work....we'd appreciate it. Should we get them little gifts? Should we have CPS find us some childcare so that durring the first day we can spend some time with the kids, without our bio kids? And then meet up for dinner or something?
I just don't want them to feel overwhelmed, and I want to be able to focus completely on them for the first few hours.
I am dealing with mixed feelings...one of which, I want to tell people, but I don't. A LOT...and I mean, A LOT of people will think we are crazy for adopting so many. I hate to say it, but sometimes their words get to me...and I think, "are they right? are we really crazy? what the hell am I doing? why would I do this?" how do i keep those thoughts out of my head?
Mgirl-1*&
Ngirl-9*
Mboy-7*
Kgirl-7
Mgirl-4*
Mboy-3*
Aboy-3
Kgirl-10 months
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