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it's hard to not get your hopes up! But on the other hand it is so much better to know when there is a staffing than not knowing at all. Because once it's over then it's over. But to not know if you even had a chnace or were one of the top 3 to me is so much harder. Sometimes we would put in on groups and wait and wait and wait and then after 2 or 3 months they would disappear and you would never hear or know anything. My thoughts are with you. I do know that I had sleepless nights knowing that a staffing was the next day. On the staffing that we were selected, I was informed of the time too! LOL! It didn't help, I just paced the house until my FAD worker called. I didn't want to leave for fear I'd miss her call, and wouldn't you know it, I did have to leave for like 5 minutes and she called within that time. But they have pretty in depth discussions about everything while in the staffings from what I've learned. I truly think that they do their best to fit the child/children with the best family.
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