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As an adoptive mom I kept a "while waiting for you journal" as another poster suggested. I think that this journal will be valuable to my daughter when she is older. One thing I have learned on this board is that bmom/emoms/firstmom's need and deserve privacy during this difficult time. I am not a bmom and I would be horrified if someone read my journal.
If you do get the chance to attend medical appointments, add notes about the appointment to your journal. After you talk to the emom, write a brief descritpion of the conversation. These will be chersihed by the child later in life.
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Debbie
Foster Parent- Biomom - Adoptive Mom
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