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my opinion is this...tell him the basic of his adoption while he is young. Keep the names and situaions for when he is older. When he is older you can tell him that when he was a baby this is what you know of his bparents. Tell him that people do change and grow and that his bparents may have or may not have. It is his decsion based upon what you know to decide wheter he wants to persue finding his bparents..as an adult.
I don't beleive that it is right for you to hold back the information whether its good or bad...if he is old enough to deal with it.
I would not tell him the bad stuff as a child though as he could personaize it.
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