Janey,
I was in no way offended by what you said about the adoptee thing. I was just reassuring you that not all adoptees feel bad about being an adoptee. So please do not beat yourself up over that comment. No foot in your mouth, or shoe up any other part of your anatomy...
As for butterfly wings on little boys...I had a little boy that LOVED to walk around in the high heel dress up shoes, and when he was three he would often comment on "liking your shirt Miss Worry" and would always comment when I got my hair done...but he was a BOY BOY too....and I had one boy that would always dress up in my old high school cheerleading skirt (dang..preschoolers wore it..what HAPPENED!??!? LOL) So SIL has no need to worry about his BOY!!! geeeesh!
Do something for you Janey...just because you are worth it!!!!
