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I would send a letter if you can and just let her know you are out there. That is what I did with my 18 year old daughter I gave up for adoption. She was happy to hear from me and we emailed a little then she said she wasn't ready for anymore contact. Just prepare yourself for a pull back, then even if there isn't, go slow. You can always take slow steps forward, it's the backing up thats hard. I would also not jsut spill all kinds of info, let her do the asking. I hope you have peace about this and that you do have a happy reunion ultimately.
Blessings
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