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Hi
Thought I would chime in here. I'm an adoptee and I, too, always appreciated the fact that I could never remember when I was "told". It was just another part of my life.
I think with children the simpler the better is the way to go. And like the others have said they can think about it and if they have questions ask them as they come up.
Also, I know with my own kids- if I had to tell them something important - for instance an upcoming surgery etc. - they would pick up on my feelings very quickly. So I would try to keep it as "no big deal" type of thing making sure that they know that their first mom loved them very much.
Best wishes to you.
Snuffie
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