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Hi,
I am an adoptive mom. I wanted a baby more than anything in the world and invested my heart and all of our savings in adoption. And I love my son more than words could ever describe.
Please DO NOT sign those consent forms if your heart says no.
Your aunt and uncle will likely be hurt and your whole family might be mad at you. But I truly believe in the long run they would live to regret it if they forced you into this adoption. In my case, I wasn't able to bond with my adopted son until his birthmother was able to assure me that she believed in her heart that she made the right decision.
I would follow the advice of the others on this board. You might have to shut your entire family out for a while. Take your baby home. See how things go. You can always make the decision later but you can never take it back once you have done it.
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