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Thank you so much for such quick and honest responses. This is the information I do not believe I heard the case worker directly address, at least not about the 6-12 months "supervision" time.

I do understand why corporal punishment would be devastating to the physically abused child - how horrific. But I don't think making a "blanket" rule for all foster children is the solution. But the alternative means lots more work and paperwork by case workers I suppose. It's just easier to make it apply to all.

Isn't it so interesting that foreign countries let you adopt before you've even held the child in your arms, yet in the U.S. you must be supervised for a year or longer before an adoption (through foster care anyway) can be final? I'm not saying I have the solutions by any means. My heart breaks for these children no matter what their situation or country of origin.

Thank you again for your quick and honest replies. What a great group of families here!

Deb