[thelowlanders]

She's 3 as of November. She was fully potty trained. But since day 1 she has "puddled". She did it on the stairs. Then sat by it making sure we knew about it. We have had "painting" episodes also. But generally puddling. We worked with her alot on communication, emotions, etc. We didn't have puddles for months. Then holidays came and there was hardly supervised visits. Her mother for 3 weeks+ completely shredded her security. Told her she was going "home" really soon w/ her and her new boyfriend and his son, etc. That we're not her family and did all the usuall f-family bashing also. Let's just say at Christmas, they had 2hrs. I came to pick up andthey hadn't opened presents yet or anything. Little did she know, that they had caught her saying all this. But in the meantime, we have a very distressed, confused, little girl who could hardly get out of there faster. She was "all done". Anyway, the puddling is now Crazy out of control. She peed on me the other day twice. It's just escalating. She wears pull ups,but has many methods to puddle. I now have to dry her in the tub, and dress her completely Before I take her out or there will be a mess of pee. We're talking seconds of turning to grab shirt, turn back and "puddle". ......ugh..... We double diaper. Pull up, then adult pull up, then plastic cover, then fitted pants. But this does not get to the heart of the problem. We want to help her through it.