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excited2adoptsoon
Requests from Biomom
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My FD is almost 2 months old now and I've had her since birth. Biomom calls almost every day and has weekly visits. Not sure if RU will continue. Bio mom mentioned to me that she'd like my FD to get her ears pierced as soon as possible. She has another daughter adopted and that adoptive mom agreed to her request with her other daughter (it's open adoption). I FOR SURE will tell the social worker if she is persistent about this - as I don't want to do it for a long time. FD is just too young IMO. Second request is that she wants to plan a baptism. She is catholic and I am not, but I'm not against this at all. I'm just not sure if it's something I should consider or not. She has many other kids and they are all in foster or adoptive homes and they have all been baptised.
How do you guys feel on these two things? If we do adopt, I do plan on keeping it open assuming it goes ok. Again, I will definitely talk to the SW about these two things but wanted to see some fosterparent insight here first.
Thanks in advance.
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The original poster asked two, and only two questions. Let's get back to answering those questions and leave the rest of the religion debate out of it.