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I haven't read the other responses but I had Tessa in July 08. Sabrina came home in July 07 when she was 9 months old (although I fostered the last 2 months). Before I had Tessa, I told anyone who asked that I didn't feel like I missed much with Sabrina. Newborns are just lumps - we missed out on sleepless nights and got her just when things got fun. After having Tessa? I totally mourn that I missed that time with Sabrina. I had no idea how much I missed and it makes me so sad. Yes, I am happy she was loved during that time by her foster mom but I hate that I missed it. So I totally get what you are saying. And I do hope to talk about it with her. It also makes me ache even more for her birth mom who didn't experience any of it.
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Michelle
Our journey journal http://www.michellesmiles.com/
It's a Girl! Sabrina DOB 9/4/06 DOR 9/13/06 
4/12/07 Antigua to foster
6/5/07 HOME FOREVER
07/29/08 Tessa Catherine born
Our family is complete 
Last edited by Michelle Smiles : 01-16-2009 at 06:26 PM.
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