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You sound like a conciderate person. I think if you decide to search, you will be careful with your parents feelings. I would just go slow, and do what you need to do for you. I am in a semi-reunion with my bio-daugther. She feels it would hurt her parents if they knew we were in contact, so she asked that we stop. However, she loves getting cards from me. Her first, and so far only question for me was, "Do I look like you?" She does, and I am glad she finally knows who she looks like.
So, I think if you maintain your concideration to your parents, go slow for yourself, and know that you don't know what you will find ( look around this site, there are many outcomes), you have the right to know where you come from. It's okay to want to know.
Blessings
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