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Technically...(very technically)...the conversion isn't "complete" until a child reaches the age of maturity and "accepts" the conversion. Jewish law states that you can't convert someone against his/her will. So the bris (or not, if it's a girl) and the mikveh are the first steps that Jewish parents take so that their children are fully accepted as members of the Jewish community. When a child reaches the age of 13 and has a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, that is seen as the "acceptance" of the conversion.
Now don't all jump down my throat...I know that there are different interpretations based on whether we're talking about Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist, etc.... And I'm not making a judgement here about what everyone else should or shouldn't do. I'm only sharing what we learned when we started this process eleven years ago.
The rabbi at our (reform) temple said he didn't feel we needed to take our son to the mikveh. As far as he was concerned if we were Jewish our son would be Jewish. Personally, we weren't okay with that. Based on the way my husband and I were raised, we wanted the mikveh (and three rabbis so we would have a beit din). But we did not use Orthodox rabbis, so, in fact, some people would say that our son's conversion "didn't count." (Of course, we disagree!)
In terms of "accepting" their conversion at age 13...see my post about B'nei Mitzvah planning (which we just started). I don't want to duplicate info here.
And so my LONG answer is...no...I don't think a Jewish court of law would consider the child Jewish if s/he were returned to his/her birthparents.
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