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Hi,
Of course this is just my opinion but I would write a letter if I had to do it over again. My BMom was expecting my call so it made it a little easier but I wouldn't recommend just calling with out any warning. This is going to be a major moment for both of you. It might be best if she has some time to prepare for it as you have. There may be things she wants to say and certain ways that she wants to say it. I think it's fair to give her the chance to help make this time as meaningful as it can be.
Best of luck to both of you!
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