My mother tries to make comments about our open adoption and tries to tell me that if I "let them go" it will be easier for her, and I should give her space. I told her that M and R were more than able to choose a closed adoption if that was what they wanted. I said that open adoption wasn't really about me, or her...it was about Tyler. M was strong enough to make an adoption plan, she is certainly strong enough to close it if it's too much for her.
So that's what I tell them 
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10/07 - We start home study visits, requirements, and paperwork!
12/07 - Approved to adopt.
01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old!
11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day!
06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again? 
06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother. 
07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY! 
07/28/09 - Matty is in our arms!
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