[thelowlanders]

I was simply told today by CW that my FD's mother just really has no idea what she's doing. That she really didn't know that it would be damaging to her daughter to badmouth our family non stop at visits. To tell her lies non stop at visits. You know...all that fun stuff. I replied that everyone has some common sense. She said, no... She was raised by an alchoholic and really didn't know any better...... Is she serious?! The mother went from behaving correctly to bad mouthing her daughter's outfits in front of me, telling her she was going home soon, and correcting her that I'm not her mommy, etc. while I'm standing there all the while glaring at me and egging her little "gang" standing there to harass me. But oh wait..... She just doesn't know any better.... Pllllease! She knows Exactly what she's doing. What is this a cover for when we go to court? I just don't get it. I know it's a vent, but maybe some of you can grace me with your wisdom from years of foster experience and convince me otherwise. I'm really not having any nice insight today.

For those of you kinda new, this post goes with the other one called "The puddling is back". These are the wonderful effects from this inappropriate nonstop behavior.