[Mil]

I was rather surprised at the immediate 'racist' comments. When I read the original poster's message, that never occurred to me. Had she said a young white man, you wouldn't have even commented on it. She was just describing the guy. Racism works both ways. I would be leary of any young man loitering by my driveway.

To the OP - I think you did the right thing by not getting out and alerting your husband! Especially having your kids with you. You can't be too careful!