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I don't have any bio kids so I don't know what that's like. With Ruby, there's a part of me that would have liked to be there from the beginning but I don't really think about it much. With Medina, who came home at age 7, I sometimes wonder about her life before me but I cherish the memories she has of her birth family and the time she spent with them (she was only in the orphanage about 1 year before she came to me). I can't feel bad about missing that time because it's obvious to me the benefits for her of remembering them.
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