|
well, it's hard to say, and life ebbs and flows and what might be good now in terms of levels of involvement may not work well later or vice versa - BUT let this be your guiding principle - You mother is your mother (without qualification - and calling her your "brith mother" doesn't change that) - she will love you always and any separation from you (including your adoption) will be very painful for her, and so, just be senstive to that ... she is no less important than anyone else in your life, no matter how little concern or care you've been tuaght for her - best, FC
|