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my dh is actually the one who brought it up, he wanted to make sure i was okay with fostering and adopting before we decided to get married. i of course was OVER the moon. he is such a good dad...in whatever capacity. sometimes other guys ask him how he could love a child that was "not his," and he can honestly respond, "i could not love them any more than i already do even if they were my biological children." and it is so true. i think alot of guys worry about that, but it only takes a few happy smiles or hugs from a toddler in need to make the daddy sense kick in. saying goodbye to a little baby we had for 4 months was hardest on my dh. it is sad just thinking about their good bye. it broke his heart, but i believe he thinks he is a better person for having known that little guy. he'd do foster care again in a second.
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