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I would send them info, but not give info to the kids until you felt they were ready to get it, no matter what the bios send back. This way you can protect the kids and some day decide(or not) to allow them to get a letter from bios. That day might not ever come. When they are adults, they can decide, but in the meantime you have kept the bios informed about the kids at least. I would definitely follow what the therapist says about visits.
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