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If you cannot afford to have anymore children then by all means DO NOT adopt again. Believe me, your child will know when there are not "wanted" by their parents and it would only wreck havoc on your relationship with them. If you want you son to have another sibling then make sure your whole heart is into it- along with the rest of the family's.
My only problem with having a sibling so far apart in age is the fact that they will have different interest because they are in different stages of their lives. Your son may feel like more of a "babysitter" to the new edition instead of a "playmate" I know I did when my third sister came into our family.
If theis cousin doesn't mind you asking then go ahead. Try to be curtious and listen to her advice too.
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