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I'm so sorry Mike.
You know, one of the things that bothered me so much about the abuse report was the *lies* that she told. If you are going to dislike me or try to hurt me, have the guts/courtesy/manners to do so with the *truth*, ya know? I have plenty of flaws she could have used against me, she didn't have to go make things up. Plus the whole feeling I have now of her manipulating me to adopt her and then when the free stuff / free ride ran out she went back to where she knew they not only bought her stuff but that they hadn't wanted her to leave. She didn't understand that all the stuff they used to buy her came from her board rate, which they aren't getting now. (They'll get my subsidy check signed over when it comes in, but it's not here yet. And it's half what her board rate was.)
You're a person with a strict moral code, a strong sense of honor and ethics (er, no wonder you got out of politics). I understand why you were so personally upset by what C did so long ago now. And I understand why what M did feels so much worse.
I hope things get better soon.
Sarah
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Mom to  B, 17 yrs.
9/21/07 - Placed for 'transitional visits'.
10/3/07 - Placed officially for adoption.
1/29/08 - Officially my daughter.
9/26/08 - B called in an abuse report on me because she refused to do her chores and didn't want to get a job. I'm not allowed to require her to do either one.
12/18/08 - B refused to live in my home anymore and chose to return to a former foster family.
1/18/09 - Former foster family refused to keep B any longer.
1/20/09 - Former foster family decided that they would keep B since I was going to place her in a therapeutic shelter and then Job Corps.
1/22/09 - Former foster family called abuse report in on me in retaliation for the loss of their foster license.
1/29/09 - Placed on leave from job with CPS.
2/10/09 - Notified that my employment will be terminated on 2/20/09.
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