I can relate.
I can so relate. J2 has not tried to communicate with me since the 12/30. He was to be here on 12/31 to celebrate the new year with us. He "no called, no showed". That is the same thing he did on 12/24, when he was to go with us to my parent's house. It's not as if I expected him to go, he was the one who called me and wanted to come! I called him on the 25th, wondering what had happened. He threw out a bunch of excuses. I didn't even waste a phone call on the 1st. Obviously, he doesn't care.
I know he has said terrible things about me to his girlfriend. She has expressed a lot of surprise when I gave them money to get a car, take them to nice dinners, and carry them around. Based on what she has said, I knew he had said some bad things. His old GF (mother of my first grand daughter) told me things that were totally untrue.
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Indy
Single father to 10 adopted sons
J1-26, J2-22, M1-21, L-20, M2-20, J3-18, C-17, V-17, S-12, J4-8
"I thought I knew everything there was to know about raising kids - and then I became a parent!"
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