Sorry if I offended. Yes, I understand how bmoms can be blamed by others -- thanks for pointing that out for me. Of course, to "blame" someone is never correct.
Actually, it makes no real difference whether or not we believe that we choose our path. But I think we all agree that everyone of us needs to learn from our experiences. And we're here on these forums to learn from each other.
I have found the answers to life that resonate with me -- I think we all learn from different sources -- and that's the way it should be.
