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Originally Posted by SoniaRose
Bromanchick,
In my viewpoint, choosing the circumstances of our life before we're born has absolutely nothing to do with blame -- I don't understand who would be blaming whom? Everything we do we do under God -- do we blame God for anything? Everything happens for a reason; there is no such thing as an accident or a coincidence.
Yes, life is full of hardships, and many of us don't deal with it very well -- but hopefully we learn from everything we experience, both the good and the bad. Life is a schoolroom, and we're here to learn our lessons. We all struggle through day by day and hope we're doing the right thing.
Anyway, my little "New Age" library helps me understand the purpose of life. As long as we are trying to make sense of the senseless, we are progressing.
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Because first parents get blamed for a lot. We get blamed for our own pain.
It isn't the same as being adopted, and I can testify to that because I am both. Crappy things get said about adopted people, but we don't get blamed for our hurt.
First parents get blamed not only for their own hurt but, if their children hurt, that hurt too. There is more blame in being a first mom than you can dream of.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult.
1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go.
2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate.
4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl!
5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling.
6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome.
7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
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