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Old 01-12-2009, 04:56 PM
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Unhappy First Home Visits and I am nervous

Well my little babies are having their first visit home. I know that it is going to be monitored..but it still makes me nervous. I know that this is the first step for TPR to happen..but.....
I did find out that they are also going to make one of the visits (they have three) in a public place, like McDonalds. They are also going to make the visits nearer to my house so that the parents will have to make an effort to get there. Right now the visits are about a block away from their house and in a very controlled enviroment. DCFS are telling us that they are trying to place the visits in a more realistic setting.So we are being told that this is for the good of the children.
It still scares me. I worry that something will happen to them.....
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