I wouldn't take her back either. She wants to play one parent off the other and will use any means to get her way no matter who it hurts. Will residential take her at her age? Here, we'd have to look at independent living facilities as the regular ones won't take a kid who is 17(they will keep them to 18 if they are already in the facility)
Glad the fparents got a dose of reality and fast even.
Good luck and I hope you can keep her out of your house.
