Just posted hugs for Skirbo and now some for you too - there is no easy answer to what you could, would, should do - follow the days as the unravel and be there when you should, back away when you need to and remember the NO word is important if you feel the need or desire to use it (which you will feel both before you are done) ... remember we're here for you - to vent, laugh, cry and care ...
