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I did not have a closed adoption, but rather a semi-open, so I've always been in communication with my son and his family through an intermediary, and hoping one day to be in direct communication with an eventual reunion. I have heard of situations where birthparents were not interested in contact and then warmed up to it, but I don't know if in those cases several years had gone by or not. I wonder if, as you get to know your birthsister, your mom might be more open to contact. Does your birthsister have any idea why your mom wants to keep the door shut??
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