Hi Faye,
You know it's so hard to say. From what I have learned in the last few months is the bmoms that are on this forum are in reunion, searching or open to reunion. So I am interested to see what responses you get. There are a couple of adoptees that really don't have an interest in reunion so maybe they will chime in.
2 years is a long time to wait. You are so patient! I'm glad you are getting to know your bsister. I think that is the relationship to pursue and hopefully bmom will come around and want to be apart of it.
I am also waiting and fear that it will never happen. It's only been 5 1/2 months and I am willing to give her more time. Her husband was not told about me and still may not have been. My bsister and bbrother do know about me and I will be contacting them in the next month or so. (silly me has a time frame. if I don't hear from bmom for my bday at the end of February, then I will contact my bsister.)
Hang in there!
