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i think you do it now, while he is too young to realize they are uncomfortable about it. As the only domestic adoption in my family, the bfamily makes some people in my family very uncomfortable. I hear it in their voices when they ask about them...as if every time they ask, they aren't really wanting to hear, they are just hoping I'll say, Nope...haven't heard from them!...when I don't they rush on to another topic...
My mother as advised that I "let it be" and never be the one to initiate contact with the bfamily. It's hard, but I push on...because I have hopes that by the time Tyler is 4 or 5, it will be just a part of our lives, just like he is...
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10/07 - We start home study visits, requirements, and paperwork!
12/07 - Approved to adopt.
01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old!
11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day!
06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again? 
06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother. 
07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY! 
07/28/09 - Matty is in our arms!
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