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Kristin, I have no knowledge with the exception..that you can not MAKE anybody see or acknowlege what is going on. You can only control your own thoughts and emotions. This is the classic case of disfuntion..I know because I had 9 other sibs...2 passed away. My family put the D in disfunction! If this is eating away at you, I might suggest, writing a letter, calmly explain until she/they acknowledge there is a problem, then it is impossible for you to continue in their disfunctional enviroment. To do so makes you feel bad, anxious, sad, and distraught. Let them know, that for you to get better, you must go on , and let them know , if/when they are ready to admit and understand what trauma has existed in the family, you can not continue in their denial phase. Sign the letter with so much love that this saddens you to even have to write it...Blessings..C.J.
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