[Kristin7]

so now the dysfunction has changed to that with my mother. she seems to think that I am the problem...that I have caused this mess and that I am the one trying to have the power. She says how can i love Sis if i don't have contact with her. She says that she understands how it has been for me for the past three years in foster care and that my setting boundaries for the visits and my anger and me feelings aren't warranted and that i'm trying to keep the girls from all family.


I don't know how to deal with all this. I can't fued with them forever....they don't get it. and i don't know how to get them to get it. Sis has told them that she has been asking for therapy with me all this time and that i am the one refusing. when sis has never been compliant with any court ordered therapy and sat on the stand and told the judge that she doedns't believe she did anything wrong and that she does not believe that any abuses took place.

I don't know what to do with it all. Her emails to me have been very hurtfull.

ideas...suggestions?