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Originally Posted by dpen6
Sweetie,
as an adoptee I would never have wanted my mother to be stuck in her grief as to not better herself. I would be proud of a bmom that did. I would feel guilty to think that she was so hurt because of me(my birth) she was unable to help herself.
I totally understand that my placement was in my best interst.
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Thank you - that does help, hearing from someone who has been adopted. Since I'm just a BMom I don't know what it is like to be adopted, and I'm not sure what all they go through. I too would probably feel guilty if my bmom didn't better herself either, I never really thought of it that way before. Thank You.